Have You Discussed These Matters With Your SO?

Planning a wedding can be a really stressful time in your life – but that doesn’t mean you should leave aside the one thing you’re doing this for: the future of your marriage. Consequently, you should also know there are some very serious chats you should be having with your fiancé before saying “I Do”.

What are these stringent matters and why are they essential? Read on and find out more.

• Whether or not you want children – and how many. Some couples want children, others don’t, some want 4+ kids, others prefer to stick to 1. Whatever your case may be, it’s totally fine as long as both you and your future spouse are on the same page on this.
• Financial matters – and not necessarily those related to the wedding. Will you create a shared bank account, as a new family? Or would you much rather prefer to keep them separate? How will you split day to day expenses? What is the level of debt you’re both in and how do you plan on paying that off? We know talking about money is severely uncomfortable, but it needs to be done.
• The name game – who changes their name, does anyone change their name, or will you hyphenate? Even more, if you choose the latter version, will you both do it? What name will your kids receive? Again, it may not be a fun discussion, but it’s just one of those things you should definitely agree on.

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